Big Rocks First
The busier you are, the more important it is to stop and read this story.
One day, an expert in time management was speaking to a group of business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget.
As he stood in front of the group of high-powered overachievers, he said, “Okay, time for a quiz.”
He then pulled out a one-gallon, ‘wide-mouth mason jar and set it
on the table in front of him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one by one, into the jar.
When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked, “Is this jar full?” Everyone in the class said, “Yes.” Then he said, “Really?”
He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel.
Then he dumped some gravel in and shook the jar, causing pieces of gravel to work
themselves down into the space between the big rocks.
Then he asked the group once more. “Is this jar full?” By this time the class was on to him.
“Probably not,” one of them answered. “Good!” he replied.
He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it
went into all the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel.
Once more he asked the question. “Is this jar full?” “No!” the
class shouted. Once again, he said, “Good!”.
Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in
until the jar was filled to the brim.
Then the expert in time-management looked
at the class and asked, “What is
the point of this illustration?”
One eager Beaver raised his hand and said,
“The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in
“No”, the speaker replied, “That’s not the point. The truth this illustration
teaches us is this: If you don’t put the big rocks in first, you’ll never get
them in at all.
What are the big rocks in your life? Your children. Your
spouse. Your loved ones. Your friendships. Your education. Your dreams. A worthy cause. Teaching or mentoring others. Doing things that you love. Time for yourself. Your health.
Remember to put these BIG ROCKS in first, or you’ll never get them in at all.
“If you sweat the little stuff (i.e. gravel, the sand) then you’ll fill your life
with little things you will never have the real quality time you need to spend
on the big, important stuff (the big rocks).
So, tonight, or in the morning,
when you are reflecting on this short story, ask yourself this question: What
are the “big rocks” in my life?
Then put those in your jar first. Have a nice day.
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